otice that when you are loving from your true being without expectation of something in return, that you receive more and more love (even if only from Self).

Notice that when you "act loving" from a "should love" place, or in an attempt to manipulate, that you become resentful.

If you become resentful for the love that you have given, it is usually because you are trying to "be right," get something, look good, or "be better than."  

This is ego-motivated love.

If you are "acting loving" rather than "being loving" you will be drained of energy.

It is wisdom to be aware and act more consciously out of your true beingness of love.